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Get the message loud and clear! HRDQ has the tools,Click here to visit HRDQ • Approach listening as an opportunity to learn • Give your mind a visual pointer Capture the Message • Humanize the speaker • • • Practice asking different kinds of questions • Create comprehension checkpoints Help the Speaker • Take a breath before you interrupt • Put your ego on hold
• Prepare to be tested Source: Learning to Listen , Learn more at HRDQ. Click here to visit HRDQ
To speak and to speak well are two things. A fool may talk, but a wise man speaks. ~Ben Jonson If you wouldn't write it and sign it, don't say it. ~Earl Wilson Two monologues do not make a dialogue. ~Jeff Daly Of those who say nothing, few are silent. ~Thomas Neiel The older I grow the more I listen to people who don't talk much. ~Germain G. Glien Most conversations are simply monologues delivered in the presence of a witness. ~Margaret Millar To be able to ask a question clearly is two-thirds of the way to getting it answered. ~John Ruskin There is no such thing as conversation. It is an illusion. There are intersecting monologues, that is all. ~Rebecca West (Cicily Maxwell Andrews), "The Harsh Voice," There Is No Conversation, 1935 By swallowing evil words unsaid, no one has ever harmed his stomach. ~Winston Churchill The kindest word in all the world is the unkind word, unsaid. ~Author Unknown Talking is like playing on the harp; there is as much in laying the hands on the strings to stop their vibration as in twanging them to bring out their music. ~Oliver Wendell Holmes People have to talk about something just to keep their voice boxes in working order so they'll have good voice boxes in case there's ever anything really meaningful to say. ~Kurt Vonnegut, Jr., Cat's Cradle Euphemisms are unpleasant truths wearing diplomatic cologne. ~Quentin Crisp Well-timed silence hath more eloquence than speech. ~Martin Farquhar Tupper, "Of Discretion," Proverbial Philosophy The true genius shudders at incompleteness - and usually prefers silence to saying something which is not everything it should be. ~Edgar Allan Poe The trouble with talking too fast is you may say something you haven't thought of yet. ~Ann Landers Everything becomes a little different as soon as it is spoken out loud. ~Hermann Hesse The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing at the right place but to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment. ~Dorothy Nevill The easiest way to save face is to keep the lower half shut. ~Author Unknown Even a fish wouldn't get into trouble if he kept his mouth shut. ~Author Unknown Among my most prized possessions are words that I have never spoken. ~Orson Rega Card Be careful of your thoughts; they may become words at any moment. ~Ira Gassen Silence is one of the hardest arguments to refute. ~Josh Billings Foolishness always results when the tongue outraces the brain. ~Author Unknown The words you choose to say something are just as important as the decision to speak. ~Author Unknown
Among provocatives, the next best thing to good preaching is bad preaching. I have even more thoughts during or enduring it than at other times. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson Let a fool hold his tongue and he will pass for a sage. ~Pubilius Syrus An inability to stay quiet is one of the conspicuous failings of mankind. ~Walter Bagehot It is better to remain silent at the risk of being thought a fool, than to talk and remove all doubt of it. ~Maurice Switzer, 1906 (Thanks, Garson O'Toole!) I am annoyed by individuals who are embarrassed by pauses in a conversation. To me, every conversational pause refreshes. ~George Sanders Isn't it surprising how many things, if not said immediately, seem not worth saying ten minutes from now? ~Arnot L. Sheppard, Jr. It is impossible to speak in such a way that you cannot be misunderstood. ~Karl Popper, Unended Quest Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret. ~Ambrose Bierce If something goes without saying, let it. ~Author Unknown Drawing on my find command of language, I said nothing. ~Robert Charles Benchley Don't tell your friends about your indigestions: "How are you!" is a greeting, not a question. ~Arthur Guiterman, A Poet's Proverbs Once a word has been allowed to escape, it cannot be recalled. ~Horace Don't speak unless you can improve on the silence. ~Spanish Proverb One of the lessons of history is that nothing is often a good thing to do and always a clever thing to say. ~Will Durant If writers wrote as carelessly as some people talk, then adhasdh asdglaseuyt[bn[ pasdlgkhasdfasdf. ~Lemony Snicket The man was on his knees, trying to retrieve each of his ugly words that were now scattered on the floor. But, of course, it was too late. ~Dr. SunWolf, professorsunwolf.com Blessed is the man who, having nothing to say, abstains from giving evidence of the fact. ~George Eliot, Impressions of Theophrastus Such, 1879 Calvin: Sometimes when I'm talking, my words can't keep up with my thoughts. I wonder why we think faster than we speak.Hobbes: Probably so we can think twice.~Bill Watterson, Calvin & Hobbes Not the fastest horse can catch a word spoken in anger. ~Chinese Proverb Never miss a good chance to shut up. ~Will Rogers (verification of author per The Estate of Will Rogers, CMG Worldwide) One way to prevent conversation from being boring is to say the wrong thing. ~Frank Sheed Talk to people about themselves and they will listen for hours. ~Benjamin Disraeli Let us not look east and west for materials of conversation, but rest in presence and unity. A just feeling will fast enough supply fuel for discourse, if speaking be more grateful than silence. When people come to see us, we foolishly prattle, lest we be inhospitable. But things said for conversation are chalk eggs. Don't say things. What you are stands over you the while, and thunders so that I cannot hear what you say to the contrary. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson, "Letters and Social Aims," 1875, paraphrased over the years to the commonly quoted version "What you do speaks so loud, that I cannot hear what you say." (Thanks, Garson O'Toole!) Discussion is an exchange of knowledge; argument an exchange of ignorance. ~Robert Quillen Coolidge was known for his terse speech and reticence. A woman bet her friend that she could get Coolidge to speak to her, which was something he was reluctant to do. She went up to him and said: "Hello, Mr. President, I bet my friend that I could get you to say three words to me." "You lose," Coolidge replied dryly, and walked away. ~Author Unknown The difference between a smart man and a wise man is that a smart man knows what to say, a wise man knows whether or not to say it. ~Frank M. Garafola I just wish my mouth had a backspace key. ~Author Unknown No man would listen to you talk if he didn't know it was his turn next. ~E.W. Howe He's a wonderful talker, who has the art of telling you nothing in a great harangue. ~Jean Baptiste Molière, Le Misanthrope The trouble with her is that she lacks the power of conversation but not the power of speech. ~George Bernard Shaw If you keep your mouth shut you will never put your foot in it. ~Austin O'Malley If everybody thought before they spoke, the silence would be deafening. ~George Barzan Man does not live by words alone, despite the fact that sometimes he has to eat them. ~Adlai Stevenson The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn't being said. ~Author Unknown In the course of my life, I have often had to eat my words, and I must confess that I have always found it a wholesome diet. ~Winston Churchill The best way to keep one's word is not to give it. ~Napoleon I, Maxims Keep your words soft and tender because tomorrow you may have to eat them. ~Author Unknown Always and never are two words you should always remember never to use. ~Wendell Johnson Talk is cheap because supply exceeds demand. ~Author Unknown Never argue with a fool, onlookers may not be able to tell the difference. ~Author unknown, attributed to Mark Twain When you're arguing with a fool, make sure he isn't doing the same thing. ~Author Unknown Always do sober what you said you'd do drunk. That will teach you to keep your mouth shut. ~Ernest Hemingway
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